FULL DAY(:
enjoyed the last video by infocomm. such a great way to sum up the whole term(:

although we were rather flop,
although we were dying of thirst,
although we were broke,
although we are burnt,
i still love the time spent there
esp the nua-ing!(:

shoulders and hands...



puen is off to swiss tmr!(:

term has ended
the holidays have come
have loads of fun
but remember to mug hard!

bus rides are REALLY REALLY enjoyable
and i m so going to miss it for the next 1wk plus=/

shoulders and hands...




the result of a mega bored person.

_ says:
so how's life?

_says:
haha i'm seriously bored

puen says:
haha

puen says:
you are really bored

_ says:
wad did u do today?

puen says:
omg

_ says:
bored and heck care

puen says:
_ you are bored

puen says:
why dont u tell me what you did today?

_ says:
me?

_ says:
i went to planet fitness in the morning

puen says:
then you can do the talking

_ says:
had lunch

_ says:
had lagsana

_ says:
then went to church

_ says:
had doughnuts

_ says:
then came home

_ says:
ate the kway chap frm breakfast

_ says:
came online

_ says:
tried to do math

_ says:
realized i screwd up at ii)

_ says:
then went for dinner

_ says:
had curry and bread

_ says:
then came up

_ says:
tried to do work

_ says:
and gave up

_ says:
then came back to mac and told u that i went to planet fitness in the morning

_ says:
then went for lunch

_ says:
had lagsana

_ says:
then went to church and had doughnuts

_ says:
then came home

_ says:
came online

_ says:
tried to do math

_ says:
realized i screwed up at ii)

_ says:
went for dinner

_ says:
had curry and bread

_ says:
then came back

_ says:
gave up doing work

_ says:
came back to mac and told u that i went to planet fitness in the morning

_ says:
[this is entertaining man]

_ says:
then went for lunch

_ says:
had lagsana

_ says:
then went to church

_ says:
had doughnuts

_ says:
then came home

_ says:
tried to do math

_ says:
realized that i screwed up at ii)

_ says:
went for dinner

_ says:
had curry and bread

_ says:
gave up doing work

_ says:
came back to mac and told u

_ says:
wait

_ says:
then i asked u wad did u do today

_ says:
and u have not answered

HAHA!
i guess i m equally bored to blog this up! haha!

absence makes the heart grow fonder...



credits to JEREMY(:

A girl talking to her BF by the roadside

Girl: Do I ever cross your mind?
Boy: No...
Girl: Do you like me?
Boy: Not really...
Girl: Do you want me?
Boy: Nope
Girl: Would you cry if I left?
Boy: Hell No...
Girl: Would you live for me?
Boy: Of coz no...
Girl: Would you do anything for me?
Boy: No...
Girl: What would you choose: your life..or me?
Boy: I choose My Liffe

The girl runs away with such shock
and pain in her
heart but the boy runs after her and
shouted
loudly....

"The reason you never
cross my mind is because you're always
on my mind...

The reason why I don't like you is
because I
love you...

The
reason I don't want you is because I
need
you...

The reason I wouldn't cry if
you left is because I would die if you
left
me...

The reason I
wouldn't live for you is because I
would die for you...

The reason why I'm
not
willing to do
anything for you is because I would
do everything
for you...

The reason I chose my
life is because
you ARE my life.

Girl: Slow down, I'm scared.
Guy: No, this is fun.
Girl: No it's not. Please it's too scary!
Guy: Then tell me you love me.
Girl:Fine, I love you. Slow down!
Guy: Now give me a BIG hug.
Girl :*hugs him*
Guy: Can you take my helmet off and put it on yourself? It's bugging me.
Girl: Alright, now slow down
Guy: I love you babe
Girl: I love you too, please just slow down now! Please

(in the paper the next day) :
A
motorcycle had crashed into a
building
because of brake failure. Two people were on it, but only 1 had survived.

The truth was that halfway down the road,
the guy realized that his brakes
broke, but he didn't want to let the girl know.
Instead,
he had her say she loved him and felt
her hug one last time, then he had
her
wear his helmet so that she would live
even though it meant that he would die



ZOOM! and thats how fast time is passing and i realised i haven been blogging for ages=/

busy week going down for match supports(: watched the soccer girls finals. amazing game! cheered my lungs and soul out which resulted in my loss of voice the next day. my heart was pounding like nobody's business and i was holding on to shuqi's hands super tightly during penalties. it was really a game of tension and i m glad i didnt miss it and the girls did us proud again(:

went for vball girls finals on thurs. sat with wushu folks and all the wushu cheering style came along. so much fun sitting with the wushu girls and cheering the wushu style!(: the girls put up a strong fight despite facing strong opponents and you all did vj proud by playing in tpsh, something which wasnt done in the past 10 odd years(: throat totally died with all the cheering plus lack of water. so spammed a bottle of lemon honey plus chrysanthemum tea consecutively which resulted in tummyache=/ so to all out there, dont spam too much of such drinks at one go cause it might backfire!

its another week before term2 ends. and half a year is gone just like that! the past half a year has really been eventful and things are happening so quickly that you dont have time to take a break. mid years is coming and i have no idea how i m going to pass it. i hope i will be able to catch up as much as i can during the hols and not screw my mid years too badly. and soon after mid years, it will be promos. and after promos will be op. and after op, will be ocip=/ the year is really gonna be a hectic one and time is going to pass faster and faster.

in 6days time, i will be leaving for Switzerland, my first Europe destination(: zomg its like so fast! it only seems like ytd when i was telling grace debby they all about the trip and asking them if they wanna go. its going to be a fun and enjoyable one cause the company is great but a torturing one as well. though its only one short week but i think it is going to be a long one for me. i hope the activities and company will keep me occupied and let the trip pass fast and yet be fast so that i can come back to singapore asap. its rather disheartening not to be in singapore on that day but o wells...

And if our love was a story book
We would meet on the very first page
The last chapter would be about
How I’m thankful for the life we’ve made

puen enjoys bus rides big time<3







it's influential.

everything has two sides to it.
if one side is down, the other side cant be up.
even if it is up
it wont be on the high side

so re-establish equilibrium
and be happy!

life is too short
for you to be sad over.

easier said than done
but you have to try



boy- i missed u at school 2day, y weren't u there?

girl- yeah, i had to go to the doctor.

boy- oh realy? y?

girl- oh nothin, annual shots, thats all.

boy- oh

girl- so wht did we do in math 2day?

boy- u didnt miss ne thing that great.......just lots of notes

girl- ok good

boy- yeah

girl- hey i have a question......

boy- ok, ask away

girl-........how much do u love me?

boy- u kno i love u more than anything

girl- yeah.....

boy- y did u ask?

girl-................>silence<..........

boy- is something wrong?

girl- no nothing at all

boy- good.

girl- ..............how much do u care about me?

boy- i would give u the world in a heartbeat if i could.

girl- u would?

boy- yeah.........of course i would >sounding worried< is there something wrong??

girl- no, everythings fine......

boy- are u sure?

girl- yeah.

boy- ok.......i hope so.

girl- ..............would u die for me?

boy- i would take a bullet for u anyday, hun

girl- realy?

boy- anyday. now seriously, is there something wrong???

girl- no im fine, ur fine, we're fine, everyones fine.

boy- ............ok

girl-......................well i have to go ill c u 2morrow at school.

boy- alright, bye. I LOVE YOU.

girl- yeah, i love u 2, bye.

THE NEXT DAY AT SCHOOL:

boy- hey, have u seen my g/f 2day?

friend- no

boy- oh.

friend- she wasnt here yesterday either.

boy- i know, she was acting all wierd on the phone last nite.

friend- well dude u kno how gurls are sumtimes

boy- yeah........but not her.

friend- idk wht else 2 say, man.

boy- k well i gotta get 2 english, ill c ya after school.

friend- yeah i gotta get to science, ttyl.

THAT NIGHT:

-ring-
-ring-
-ring-
-ring-
girl- hello?

boy- hey

girl- oh, hi.

boy- y weren't u at school 2day?

girl- uh.......i had another doctor appointment.

boy- are u sick?

girl- ..................um i have 2 go, my mom's callin on my other line.

boy- ill wait.

girl- it may take a while, ill call u later.

boy-........alright, i love u hun.

very long pause<


girl- (with tear in her eye) look, i think we should break up.

boy- what???

girl- its the best thing for us right now.

boy- y????

girl- i love u.
click<


THE GIRL DOESNT COME TO SCHOOL FOR 3 MORE WEEKS, AND DOESNT ANSWER HER PHONE.

boy- hey dude

friend- hey

boy- whats up

friend- nothin, hey have u talked 2 ur ex lately?

boy- no

friend- so u didnt hear?

boy- hear what?

friend- um idk if i should be the one to tell u......

boy- dude, wtf tell me

friend- uh....call this number....433-555-3468

boy- ok............

BOY CALLS NUMBER AFTER SCHOOL

-ring-
-ring-
-ring-
voice- hello, suppam county hospital, this is nurse beckam.

boy- uh.......i must have the wrong number, im looking for my friend.

voice- what is her name, sir?
(boy gives info)

voice- yes, this is the right number, she is one of our patients here.

boy- rele? y? what happened??? how is she???

voice- her room number is ..646, in building A, suite 3.

boy- WHT HAPPENED??!!!!

voice- plz come by sir and you can see her, goodbye.

boy- WAIT! NO!
*dial tone*

BOY GOES TO HOSPITAL, AND TO ROOM ..646, BUILDING A, SUITE 3. GIRL IS LYING IN THE HOSPITAL BED.

boy- omg are u ok??

girl- ..................

boy- sweetie!! talk to me!!

girl- i..........

boy- u what?? U WHAT???

girl- i have cancer and im on life support

boy- .....................>breaks into tears<......................

girl- they're taking me off 2night

boy- y??

girl- i wanted 2 tell u but i couldnt

boy- y didnt u tell me????

girl- i didnt want 2 hurt u.

boy- u could never hurt me

girl- i just wanted 2 c if u felt bout me as the same i felt bout u.

boy- ?

girl- i love u more than anything, i would give u the world in a heartbeat. i would die for you and take a bullet for you.

boy- ...........

girl- dont be sad, i love u n ill always be here w/u

boy- then y'd u break up w/me?

nurse- young man, visiting hours are over.

BOY LEAVES, GIRL IS TAKEN OFF LIFE SUPPORT, AND DIES.

but wht the boy didn't kno is that the girl only asked him those questions so she could hear him say it one last time, and she only broke up w/him because she knew she only had 3 more weeks to live, and thought it would cause him less pain and give him time to get over her before she died.

NEXT DAY

the boy is found dead with a gun in his hand..with a note in the other...
THE NOTE SAID:i told her i would take a bullet for her....just like she said she would die for me...











its been a long week. its gonna be a memorable week(:

tuesday 2904
a day that i will never forget
a day that i took a new path in my life
a day that is going to make my life go even crazier

friday 0205
didnt have the mood to study at all for the whole day. been stoning and blindly copying stuff. but thank goodness, no impt lessons on that day. left school halfway to support vball. boon is pissed cause she wanted to go support in order to pon pw but in the end there was no pw! the match that day was really an eye opener for me cuase personally i have never watched a vball match before and i was super shocked when i heard everyone on court was communicating in CHINESE!! it never occured to me that vball is a cheena game and i always though wushu is the only sport that converse in chinese! i guess next time if vballers needs cheering team the wushu team can go! we can call cchms ppl to go also esp ks and qy! haha! big thank you to CAITLIN(: we managed to save ourselves for unnecessary trouble(:

reached back school in time for gym=( gym was a total malu session for all of us=/ haven been to gym for like a year or two alr. jieru spammed us with exercises which i personally cant remember any! was totally drained and aching by the end of the session. wont be looking forward to any of the sessions=/ once gym ended, we all chionged for dance concert! got a quick shower and chiong out to look for my KFC(: the team was kind of jealous cause i was the only one with proper dinner!! haha! gobbled my food up and went into the pt to look for may jing alicea elroy.

watching the dance concert made me recollect all my wonderful days dancing. i really miss them. and to make me think further back into those days, the good and the bad, was when dance spectrum international putting up the tap piece. saw the dancers who were all in the scholars group and some of them have grown so much since the last time i saw them. never knew that phoebe was from dsi too but random. haha! during intermission, i saw misssharon, sitting two rows directly behind me=/ she was still her usual self and saw nicolette and her mum. wanted to say hi to her but i was afraid to considering how i left dsi without a proper explanation.

then the second half of the concert came and it was highly entertaining! esp the teachers' item! najib and josef are really entertainers! me and may were laughing our way through and i was like almost tearing at the end of the item. and like what mark said, "they are too cool to be teachers!" i really enjoyed the dance concert and it made me recall how much i miss dancing. i guess its going to be one thing that i will never lose passion in in this lifetime and i promise that i am going to pick up ballet again when time permits me to.

two pieces in the dance concert that i really enjoy the most was the ballet piece, choreographed by phoebe and hannah, and the lyrical hiphop piece, choreographed by jinghan. the butterfly piece made me want to go on my satin shoes again and start dancing on stage. the lyrical hiphop was really good cause i could feel the message that jinghan wanted to put across - heartbroken.

sat 0305
went back to school to clear up the wushu room. all of us totally fainted by the amount of the rubbish and things that the lion dance people had! they had like cupboards and cupboards of junk that we had to clear lar. they had rice cooker, all the bbq stuff that you need, pots, knives, wen fang si bao, comics, dvds.... piangs! we used up like 8-10 trash bags and filled the two big green bins in the canteen and there were still junk! but thankfully everyone was rather cooperative and we managed to clear all the rubbish, refurbished the room a little, mop and clean the panes, all in about 3hours=D had a quick chat with grace while having half time during the clean up. and i cant believe that i trust you so much! kind of regret in agreeing to your request but i guess you know what is the most appropriate way of managing the information that you read. dont let me catch you telling people things that you arent suppose to or else... HAHA!

all i am asking for are small little things like the quick lunch today and quality time spent together, nothing more or nothing less, and i am contented already(:



love is not all about being touchy and loud
its all about spending quality time with him/her
going through all the ups and downs
and win together in life(:



Discover the 90/10 Principle
[Author: Stephen Covey]

It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations).

What is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react.

What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.

We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.

We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.

How? ……….By your reaction.

You cannot control a red light. but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let's use an example.

You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.

What happens next will be determined by how you react.

You curse.

You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus.

Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.

When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the morning.

Why did you have a bad day?

A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is "D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.

Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.

Why?

Because of how you REACTED.

You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you!

React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off) Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?

WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive?

Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job.
Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.

The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take outpour frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.

Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.

Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result?

Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.

It CAN change your life!!!

dedicated to everyone who cant control their emotions especially YOU. you know you cant afford to lose it on court anymore so jiayous and STAY CALM!!<3